your marriage.

Dear FutureMe, So, how's it working out? Are you still not talking? Did you ever go to counseling? Is he still calling you selfish because you won't have a baby? (you aren't pregnant, are you? Oh, God, I hope you aren't pregnant.) If you are, I hope you're at least happy about it. I won't ask about the sex because I know that's probably the same. How are *you*? Are you less than 200 lbs? have you started working out? You said you would, after you got the house. I hope you're taking care of yourself. And finding yourself, too, because as I write this, you're lost and wondering where exactly things started to change and you started giving yourself away. I hope you've found your beauty and talent again. I hope you've stopped giving in and giving up. I love you.