I know you love him

Dear FutureMe, I hope that this is an unnecessary message, I hope that things have worked themselves out by the time you read this. But I have to admit, I'm not that hopeful. If he's still being selfish - if he's still thinking of himself before anyone else, if he's still sitting on his ass on the couch with a beer and a video game, then it's time to do something about it. You deserve better. Right now, I'm trying to give him space and let him find whatever it is he lost. I know it's not easy for him, and I don't want to make any decisions when I'm so emotional. I pray that he has found it by the time this hits your in box. If he hasn't, then I tell you this: Today, December 23rd 2005 is the day you decided that love may not be enough. And you decided to give him some more time, and to try and help in whatever way you can. But if it doesn't work...if he doesn't wake up...if he isn't the person you fell in love with, well...then it's time to end it. It's going to hurt. It's not going to be easy. You're going to second guess yourself and you're going to want to run back. Don't do it. Stop putting your life on hold for other people. In ten years, you don't want to be looking back and thinking what a waste it all was.