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How to write a letter to yourself: The love letter

A famous poet once said, “It is better to loved and lost, than never to have loved at all.”

Published Mar 3rd, 2022

The best part is, when you write a love letter to yourself you don’t have anything to lose, but everything to gain! Our thoughts are often focused on expressing love for others — but you deserve love too, remember?

 So, if you’re ever feeling a bit blue and want to perk yourself up, write yourself a letter to turn that frown upside down. Take the time to reflect on how you are feeling before starting the letter to your future self.


Here are some writing prompts to help get you started...

Dear GORGEOUS Future Me (or make it fun and give yourself a nickname),

I love how you …

I admire you for …

I respect the fact you …

You are beautiful because …

I am proud of you for …

Thank you for always …




The positive affirmations you write to yourself can restore your faith in the true You. Remind yourself that you are enough and whatever you are going through on the day you receive this letter, you will get through it! Let go of your own limiting beliefs, accept yourself as you are and don’t forget to R-E-S-P-E-C-T yourself.

Tell yourself: you are special, you are wise, you are strong, you are smart and you are talented. Accept your flaws and take a moment to show that you believe in yourself.


Self-love journaling is a terrific way to reconnect with yourself.

It can:

  • Decrease your anxiety

  • Increase your creativity

  • Boost your confidence

  • Reduce your stress

  • Improve your self-esteem

  • Enhance your self-awareness

  • Regain your self-worth

  • Reaffirm your coping skills

  • Give you a sense of belonging.


Make yourself a nice hot chocolate (with two marshmallows), sit in your favorite chair next to your favorite pet, light your favorite candle, set up your laptop and start writing.

Whether you write yourself a love letter, a poem, a song or an entire screenplay, it doesn't matter: just do whatever feels natural to you! This letter is for your eyes only so don't be shy about getting creative and being brutally honest. This is a moment for you to harness all of your power and self-belief.

The most important relationship we will have in our lives is the one we have with ourselves. So get writing, get nurturing and develop that relationship through letters to yourself. You'll be amazed at the positive buzz and energy it brings.